All you have to do, is intercept the user friend's list, get his emails and check if these emails are on my website using a "POST".
According to my website response, you will show a correspondent image and message.
Also, update the status of the user.
If you find a way to message the user friend's without spamming of course and update the AOL profile and the user email you will receive a bonus.
Easy enough, isn't?
More info about the AIM SDK here:
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